While eventually I would like to be in a LTR with someone who is like minded, Meeting and having fun with others, including couples, sounds like a nice option in the meantime.
Vgl, athletic build, Sane, no drama, intelligent, professionally employed, laid back, unpretentious,respectful,sexual and sensual wm. I have met some very nice people on here and would like to continue to do so. I cannot post a picture but I am more than willing to send one in private, and Without sounding self-serving (although I know it will), I don't think you will be disappointed.
Having been on here awhile now, I'd like to make some observations. I'm certainly open to feedback, and welcome such, as it might be you have a differing view and/or your experience(s) is (are) different.
First, women (and to a lesser but significant extent, couples) rule this site. Unfortunately, I think women on here must get inundated with inane, insufficient, unintelligible or just plainly rude contacts, as the number of individuals who do not respond when contacted is staggering. Of course, that is certainly one's choice and while I understand it can be borne out of such type of responses, I try (and I'm sure others do as well) to be forthright, and telling in my contact. I actually did get one response from someone who said my contact was "too long", and never heard from her again. In any event, this is a real shame as I believe that such cynicism stops both sides from meeting and having a potentially fun---if not more--"relationship".
Second, I think there is a real bias against those who cannot (or will not) put a picture in their profile. I actually have much respect for those that can, but I recognize that for others---myself included--it is not an option. As a result, I try as much as possible to provide one when I make contact. Nonetheless,I think that when that individual looks at the profile and sees no picture, it is "counted" against the per. Again, unfortunate.
Third, and this is more a question than anything else: what does a kiss or wink actually mean? Does it indicate the contacting per/couple is interested and wants you to contact them? Does it mean they're interested but not enough to contact you directly (understanding that some who are standard members may not be able to contact directly)? Similarly, what is the story with getting winks or flirts from others who are hundreds of miles away. I'm lost on this.
There is more and I suspect I will write more in time. For now, I leave these three observations.
Getting off my soapbox, I would love to hear from you (including couples). Thanks for reading.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really-----the person I'm with is usually more
than enough
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.
